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Saturday, March 27, 2010

A Heartbrokening Story

A and J both are my friends. They got to know each other 2 years ago and gladly announced that they got engaged last 14th of February! Well, I still remembered that I congratulates them and wishes them love one another till the end.I even joked that I would like to be the bridesmaid.. Hmmm ~~ 
 And today, I saw a post in J's FB, announcing would like to break the engagement! This is really shocking news. I tried to calm J down, but in the end was blamed for being caring. I was mad but after a while I cooled down for I have nothing to do with the problems that arise in their relationship. No matter what he had said I just treat it as a advices for my upcoming relationship/s.. 

Below are just my thoughts and simple things that a spouse must have.
 
1. Never date with a childish, inconsiderate guy/gal who required 24- hours standby to be with him/her.
2. Face your spouse with the 'true' identity. Do not be fake just intend to please him/her.
3. When in a relationship, do give each other privacy. Measure the time in between friends and spouse. It doesn't mean once you have a partner you could not have friends.
4. Think rationally before you get engaged. Engagement is not a game. Announce to the world and then break it. It will be hurtful to each other.
5. Be mature when problems come. Faced it together.

Well, I do not know how to help them. Another personal advice from personal experience;
 
Trust and faith is the root for a great marriage. 
Do not forget to bring God into your relationship and marriage.


Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Tired + Unhappy + Helpless + Hopeless

This is Yun's mood at the moment when pen down the thoughts of mind. 

Tired - It had been continuously for 2 weeks Yun's life had been upside down a total chaos. First of all, Yun's studies. Bad news, bad news unceasing bad news ever since I came back from holidays. Spending 2 weeks time to restructure the whole things causing Yun to have restless nights and nightmare. 
In short, knackered! 
 
Lab works + Writing + Meetings + Dating with Boss

I enjoy NONE! Pity me..

People can escape if they dislike anything.. BUT I can't escape! Life is just life! Sh*t!

Well, Yun really hope that things could get over fast and it's time to slow down the tune of my life before I destroyed myself.

Unhappy - When Yun asked for help... NONE besides strangers help me.

Helpless - Yun is unable to lend a hand to other people already coz Yun is not able to help herself either. There are still lots of other people's assignments, projects and thesis proofread in my mail box.. SORRY ~ ~ Old people have limited energy and time. 

Hopeless - My health giving out red alarming signal. I thought that I am healthy enough.. but it seems... Haiz~~~ just a waste of my money for the medical bills..


That's all for this post.. Your dear babe Yun need to leave for a rest.
May God Bless all of you.