Foods During Reunion Dinner

This year we have a great reunion dinner with all complete 7 family members. It was such a long time since we all further our studies elsewhere. I should say that my parents indeed are the happiest one seeing all their children gather around the table to enjoy the dishes that they had prepared. Sharing with all my readers some of the foods that were prepared by my parents. Not to forget to mention here, my dad cooks well as well oh~~ hehe..

My mom's expert dish. Sweet sour pork ribs.

Mixed vege with baby abalone.

Black Pepper beef and eventually the prawns with kailan (local vege).

There are some missing photos due to my faulty laptop during the chinese new year. 

They includes;

Stew Pork

Fried nuggests

Steam buns

High protein tendons

Sweet Corn soup

Sweet sour fish

Steam prawns with red wine.

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Absolute + Sprite (cocktail) 

and 

Longang + peach + mixed fruits as dessert.

Hmmm... my saliva began to overflow d..

That's all showing to all my readers. 

Snow Queen

It had been a long time Yun did not actually watch a series movie coz Yun thought that it would be a waste of time and energy. Well, Yun just finished watching a 16 series movies in 2 days time. Geng right~~It's sooooo touching and it caused Yun sobbing away while watching it.

Sharing with Yun's reader the theme song for the Snow Queen. Not going to say much just tat from the movie Yun realised the power of love and destiny.

You can love but it's the destiny tat designated whether you will be with your beloved one. Truth is cruel sometime.

A Heartbrokening Story

A and J both are my friends. They got to know each other 2 years ago and gladly announced that they got engaged last 14th of February! Well, I still remembered that I congratulates them and wishes them love one another till the end.I even joked that I would like to be the bridesmaid.. Hmmm ~~ 

 And today, I saw a post in J's FB, announcing would like to break the engagement! This is really shocking news. I tried to calm J down, but in the end was blamed for being caring. I was mad but after a while I cooled down for I have nothing to do with the problems that arise in their relationship. No matter what he had said I just treat it as a advices for my upcoming relationship/s.. 

Below are just my thoughts and simple things that a spouse must have.

 

1. Never date with a childish, inconsiderate guy/gal who required 24- hours standby to be with him/her.

2. Face your spouse with the 'true' identity. Do not be fake just intend to please him/her.

3. When in a relationship, do give each other privacy. Measure the time in between friends and spouse. It doesn't mean once you have a partner you could not have friends.

4. Think rationally before you get engaged. Engagement is not a game. Announce to the world and then break it. It will be hurtful to each other.

5. Be mature when problems come. Faced it together.

Well, I do not know how to help them. Another personal advice from personal experience;

 

Trust and faith is the root for a great marriage. 

Do not forget to bring God into your relationship and marriage.

Tired + Unhappy + Helpless + Hopeless

This is Yun's mood at the moment when pen down the thoughts of mind. 

Tired - It had been continuously for 2 weeks Yun's life had been upside down a total chaos. First of all, Yun's studies. Bad news, bad news unceasing bad news ever since I came back from holidays. Spending 2 weeks time to restructure the whole things causing Yun to have restless nights and nightmare. 

In short, knackered! 

 

Lab works + Writing + Meetings + Dating with Boss

I enjoy NONE! Pity me..

People can escape if they dislike anything.. BUT I can't escape! Life is just life! Sh*t!

Well, Yun really hope that things could get over fast and it's time to slow down the tune of my life before I destroyed myself.

Unhappy - When Yun asked for help... NONE besides strangers help me.

Helpless - Yun is unable to lend a hand to other people already coz Yun is not able to help herself either. There are still lots of other people's assignments, projects and thesis proofread in my mail box.. SORRY ~ ~ Old people have limited energy and time. 

Hopeless - My health giving out red alarming signal. I thought that I am healthy enough.. but it seems... Haiz~~~ just a waste of my money for the medical bills..

That's all for this post.. Your dear babe Yun need to leave for a rest.

May God Bless all of you.

I do not know the meaning of LOVE!

I thought I know the meaning of love. Indeed there are too much for me to learn. I have had a bad experience in relationship few years ago. It was a nostalgic experience and honestly, I do treasure the experience that I had gone through. Bitter, sweet, sour, tears and laughter.. It make me treasure more.

All this while I closed myself up for a new relationship. It's not that I'm not interested in guys.. I do spy at handsome guys.. =p but I do not trust in them. For me, guys are just meant to be entertained not to share your life with. You might not agree with me.. well.. this is just my thoughts.

Tonnes of questions being posted to me this year.. The main question is ; 

"When you gonna bring your bf to show to us???"

Well, I do not afraid of this kind of questions..  You could ask but is up to me whether to entertain you or not.. =p I'm egoist woman I should say..

Have a deep thought of these questions recently; and someone do give me answers for all the questions that are posted. I'm glad that I do have friend who actually care and love me as who I am. I never ever know that there are so many people caring and encouraging me. 

There are some who back-stabbed but there are more who wound the wounds. Most of the time, I focus on those who back-stabbed and hurt me. I was heartbroken and even moan over the misfortune that I had to go through. I've forgotten to glance at those who wound the wounds. I care too much on how others view on me (the mask that I put on) and I forgot the true I. 

The knots in my heart have been untied. It's not self comforting or what.. I had never feel the liberty and the love ever since then. I'm on the way to find the pleasure of my life. There might be lots of changes in my life this year, I do hope that I found pleasure out of it. 

To all my readers;

Do not afraid of the changes that arise in your life, changes bring in progress. It doesn't matter whether it's your work, study, relationship, life... View the positive sites and all things are just great with the grace of God.