A Heartbrokening Story

A and J both are my friends. They got to know each other 2 years ago and gladly announced that they got engaged last 14th of February! Well, I still remembered that I congratulates them and wishes them love one another till the end.I even joked that I would like to be the bridesmaid.. Hmmm ~~ 

 And today, I saw a post in J's FB, announcing would like to break the engagement! This is really shocking news. I tried to calm J down, but in the end was blamed for being caring. I was mad but after a while I cooled down for I have nothing to do with the problems that arise in their relationship. No matter what he had said I just treat it as a advices for my upcoming relationship/s.. 

Below are just my thoughts and simple things that a spouse must have.

 

1. Never date with a childish, inconsiderate guy/gal who required 24- hours standby to be with him/her.

2. Face your spouse with the 'true' identity. Do not be fake just intend to please him/her.

3. When in a relationship, do give each other privacy. Measure the time in between friends and spouse. It doesn't mean once you have a partner you could not have friends.

4. Think rationally before you get engaged. Engagement is not a game. Announce to the world and then break it. It will be hurtful to each other.

5. Be mature when problems come. Faced it together.

Well, I do not know how to help them. Another personal advice from personal experience;

 

Trust and faith is the root for a great marriage. 

Do not forget to bring God into your relationship and marriage.

Tired + Unhappy + Helpless + Hopeless

This is Yun's mood at the moment when pen down the thoughts of mind. 

Tired - It had been continuously for 2 weeks Yun's life had been upside down a total chaos. First of all, Yun's studies. Bad news, bad news unceasing bad news ever since I came back from holidays. Spending 2 weeks time to restructure the whole things causing Yun to have restless nights and nightmare. 

In short, knackered! 

 

Lab works + Writing + Meetings + Dating with Boss

I enjoy NONE! Pity me..

People can escape if they dislike anything.. BUT I can't escape! Life is just life! Sh*t!

Well, Yun really hope that things could get over fast and it's time to slow down the tune of my life before I destroyed myself.

Unhappy - When Yun asked for help... NONE besides strangers help me.

Helpless - Yun is unable to lend a hand to other people already coz Yun is not able to help herself either. There are still lots of other people's assignments, projects and thesis proofread in my mail box.. SORRY ~ ~ Old people have limited energy and time. 

Hopeless - My health giving out red alarming signal. I thought that I am healthy enough.. but it seems... Haiz~~~ just a waste of my money for the medical bills..

That's all for this post.. Your dear babe Yun need to leave for a rest.

May God Bless all of you.

I do not know the meaning of LOVE!

I thought I know the meaning of love. Indeed there are too much for me to learn. I have had a bad experience in relationship few years ago. It was a nostalgic experience and honestly, I do treasure the experience that I had gone through. Bitter, sweet, sour, tears and laughter.. It make me treasure more.

All this while I closed myself up for a new relationship. It's not that I'm not interested in guys.. I do spy at handsome guys.. =p but I do not trust in them. For me, guys are just meant to be entertained not to share your life with. You might not agree with me.. well.. this is just my thoughts.

Tonnes of questions being posted to me this year.. The main question is ; 

"When you gonna bring your bf to show to us???"

Well, I do not afraid of this kind of questions..  You could ask but is up to me whether to entertain you or not.. =p I'm egoist woman I should say..

Have a deep thought of these questions recently; and someone do give me answers for all the questions that are posted. I'm glad that I do have friend who actually care and love me as who I am. I never ever know that there are so many people caring and encouraging me. 

There are some who back-stabbed but there are more who wound the wounds. Most of the time, I focus on those who back-stabbed and hurt me. I was heartbroken and even moan over the misfortune that I had to go through. I've forgotten to glance at those who wound the wounds. I care too much on how others view on me (the mask that I put on) and I forgot the true I. 

The knots in my heart have been untied. It's not self comforting or what.. I had never feel the liberty and the love ever since then. I'm on the way to find the pleasure of my life. There might be lots of changes in my life this year, I do hope that I found pleasure out of it. 

To all my readers;

Do not afraid of the changes that arise in your life, changes bring in progress. It doesn't matter whether it's your work, study, relationship, life... View the positive sites and all things are just great with the grace of God. 

Dessert Paradise

The Dessert Paradise is located at Jalan Song besides the Starbucks and Cosway. It was a newly established Dessert Corner so we intend to have a try on the dessert that they provide.

Yun's personal view for this Dessert Paradise - There are still rooms for improvements. The rate that Yun's going to give is 3/10.

Charlie's Angel ordered themselves three different kinds of desserts and we are not satisfied with the bucks that we spent on it..
It got very creative decorations but the taste and the feel of eating it.. still need some improvements. First, the fruits is not cold when you feed on the dessert it, just like yucks~~ warm dessert besides the ice-cream! (The price range from RM 4.5 - 6.0 for the desserts that we had ordered)

So~ not going to promote more bout the dessert. Let's enjoy the photos that we had captured.

After Three Cafe

Yun visited After Three Cafe last weekend. Well, Yun had been to this place to few times and was not satisfied with their food. However, this time, the food that Yun tried changed Yun's perceptions toward their cafe. They have indeed inproved a lot.

We ordered ourselves the sea coconut jelly drink (RM 2.80) and the green bean with sea coconut jelly (RM 2.00). It tastes superb.

Coming, is the noddles with fish fillert. They served the whole complete piece of the fish fillert which Yun think is a bit too much. They should serve with more noodles and reduce the portion of fish fillert. Overall, the noodles is nice. Recommendable for all to try on. (RM 8.80)

The 'Chao Zhu Mian' or it's also called the Foochow's Noodles (the second picture of the top row). This portion of noodles and the taste is just great with small amount of red wine and not too salty~ (RM 6.00)

The first photo on the 2nd row is the Fish Head Bi Hun. My sister loves this very much, thus I tried the Fish Head Bi Hun cooked by the chef at After Three. It was the taste that I ate few years ago when I was in KL. The ideal milk cover the fishy smell of the soup thus it taste good with a little bit chillis in it and the portion is just great to suit my appetite that noon. (RM 6.00)

Not to forget also the Kaya Toast, a must dish whenver I visited After Three. I love their bread and the way they prepared it. Taste marvellous~~ Yum Yum~~

Last but not least, here the Charlie's Angel who visited After Three. We all are satisfied with the food provided. It's worth a try and worth the money.. ^^